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Updates (Month Ending August)

It’s been a while, so here’s a brief update (by way of links) of what I’ve been up to:

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Reader 09.03.10

A quick round up of articles recently read with favorite lines below.

Solitude and Leadership: If you want others to follow, learn to be alone with your thoughts

  • On taking time: The best writers write much more slowly than everyone else, and the better they are, the slower they write. James Joyce wrote Ulysses, the greatest novel of the 20th century, at the rate of about a hundred words a day…for seven years. T. S. Eliot, one of the greatest poets our country has ever produced, wrote about 150 pages of poetry over the course of his entire 25-year career. That’s half a page a month. So it is with any other form of thought. You do your best thinking by slowing down and concentrating.
  • On noise: “Your own reality—for yourself, not for others.” Thinking for yourself means finding yourself, finding your own reality. Here’s the other problem with Facebook and Twitter and even The New York Times. When you expose yourself to those things, especially in the constant way that people do now—older people as well as younger people—you are continuously bombarding yourself with a stream of other people’s thoughts. You are marinating yourself in the conventional wisdom. In other people’s reality: for others, not for yourself. You are creating a cacophony in which it is impossible to hear your own voice, whether it’s yourself you’re thinking about or anything else. That’s what Emerson meant when he said that “he who should inspire and lead his race must be defended from travelling with the souls of other men, from living, breathing, reading, and writing in the daily, time-worn yoke of their opinions.”
  • On solitude and introspection: So solitude can mean introspection, it can mean the concentration of focused work, and it can mean sustained reading. All of these help you to know yourself better. But there’s one more thing I’m going to include as a form of solitude, and it will seem counterintuitive: friendship. Of course friendship is the opposite of solitude; it means being with other people. But I’m talking about one kind of friendship in particular, the deep friendship of intimate conversation. Long, uninterrupted talk with one other person…Introspection means talking to yourself, and one of the best ways of talking to yourself is by talking to another person. One other person you can trust, one other person to whom you can unfold your soul.

Scott Berkun on Writing Hacks

  • The secret, if you can’t start, is to begin without constraints. Deliberately write badly, but write…It’s not the fear of writing that blocks people, it’s fear of not writing well; something quite different. (The rest of the article contains 10 ideas to get writing again)

Lapham’s Quarterly: Kurt Vonnegut at the Blackboard

  • Vonnegut charts story lines, providing a visual to some classic tales: Man in hole,  Boy meets girl, Cinderella, Franz Kafka and Hamlet. An amusing and thought provoking way to look at literature.

    The truth is, we know so little about life, we don’t really know what the good news is and what the bad news is.

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If the iPhone and Android were women…

(Initially written as a friendly email debate, late May 2010)

If the iPhone and Android were women, the iPhone would be the super hot, well-dressed, high maintenance woman. She’s wearing a knock out dress that shows all the right curves, rounded out with a pair of killer heels, perfectly done hair and stunning make up. She’s radiant. And she knows it, a little too much. The Android phone would be the tech-geeky, cute, slightly awkward, super smart woman. She thinks she’s pretty cool but not entirely confident about it as she’s still growing and learning. On an average day, she’s dressed comfortably, maybe a simple shirt, a cute skirt and sensible flats. Her make up is natural and minimal. Her hair looks good but you know she didn’t spend 45 minutes on it this morning. She could pull off the same outfit as the iPhone, she just can’t deal with all that hassle and primping.

Men like the iPhone for its obvious aesthetics and allure. It’s polished, it’s gorgeous, and the user interface is flirtatiously friendly. Hell, it makes them look and feel young, cool and hip. In fact, they flock to it. Why wouldn’t they? It’s the coolest thing on the market and first to market. Sure, there’s better women in development, but why wait for them if they can get and have a pretty good thing right now?

A few years into the iPhone courtship, enter Android. Sure she’s different, quirky and up and coming but really, they’ve invested so much time into the iPhone already. Aren’t the known iPhone flaws better than taking a risk on something entirely new and unknown? You’re guess is about as good as mine. What we all know is this: The iPhone, her communication skills flat out suck. Not only is she only intermittently available and temperamental, she actually hangs up on men ALL THE TIME. But they keep coming back for more! Because she has all these great features and is so much fun. And, she’s so easy to use! What people forget is that the core function of the iPhone, hardly works. It’s called an iPhone for god’s sake and she’s not even good at being a phone! That’s her job and she knows she stinks at it, so she distracts men with her cool, fun secondary features – like she’s great at Words with Friends!

As the years pass, iPhone gets a little controlling and demanding. She’s now decided that she only exclusively wants to be friends with people who will email her using a Safari browser or MacMail as their email client. She still manages to keep a decent circle of friends – or enough so that it still fosters a creative environment – but she’s starting to close herself off to people simply because they use Mozilla, Chrome, IE, Firefox, etc. Her friends are beginning to wonder if she’s getting a little nutty with her arbitrary restrictions. She’s a little aware of the feedback and the discontent among her people but she only likes to do major improvements once every year or so. So no point in taking in feedback and changing right now. Plus, if she did take feedback in more frequently, all other functions would grind to a halt. Did we mention that she can’t walk and chew gum at the same time? Regardless, she knows she’s still pretty damn popular and makes people look good, there’s really no point in walking out on something that’s comfortable, cool and familiar.

Meanwhile, on the other side of town, Android is slowly growing in popularity. She’s been fostering a group of friends where she encourages an openly creative environment. She shares a lot. She thrives on it. She partners with a bunch of people and works on her communication. There are no arbitrary rules on what her friends can and can’t use when interacting with her. She’s constantly taking in external feedback, re-assessing what’s working/what’s not and iterates and tries again. She’s agile. Her solutions might fail but that’s alright, she’s willing to put her ideas out there, mess up, be judged for it and adjust accordingly.

She’s not perfect, in fact, she’s got plenty of flaws that are painfully visible. She’s not terribly polished. She’s little all over the place partnering with so many different people. Ok, ok, so Android can come off as a bit, uh, well-traveled. But we like to refer to it as having deal flow. But beneath the superficial disarray, Android is realizing that she has a good head on her shoulders. So she continues to focus on what’s important even if it means not taking care of all the little external details. And as weeks, months pass other people also start to see her influence. In fact, they’re surprised by what she comes up with time and again. She’s full of pleasant surprises and will likely only getter better and cooler over time. Oh, did we mention that not only can she walk and chew gum at the same time, but she can also hold a conversation while browsing the web and scheduling events?

Update: June 30, 2010
Awesome! The iPhone can now multitask. It only took FOUR versions and THREE years for her to learn multitasking. My nephew was multitasking before he turned one. Of course with great enhancements, come great sacrifices. Sadly, now, if you hold the iPhone4 in a certain way, she’ll go cold and drop all reception.

The writer of this post is currently a Blackberry Curve 8330 owner. If the Blackberry were a woman, she’d be the corporate librarian – the one where everyone is secretly wanting and waiting for her to let her hair down. She is “sleek, chic, sensible, pioneering, capable, not caving to market pressures, calm and collected. Attractive and sophisticated – not very flashy. She just does her own thing, and does it well.”*

*Source: J. A. Chin, via Facebook. July 1, 2010.

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Month Ending June 2010

  • See Tony Hsieh talk at Commonwealth Club. Learn about Zappos core values, how they interview for humility, Zappos Insights on culture, and that triadic relationships are the most stable.
  • Ongoing transition of work back to Google team, roll off early July.
  • Obscenely great dining experience at In Canto.
  • Select readers for next LitUp show. Mark your calendars, Tuesday July 20th at Space Gallery (1141 Polk Street) at 7:30.
  • Take 2nd course in coaching series. Focuses on fulfillment. Plan to coach people in career transition (figuring out what they want to do) and eventually provide pro bono coaching to young adults.

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Day One at the Googleplex

Earlier this week, I returned to the Googleplex as a contracted employee. It was kind of weird to be back, yet nice. These are the highlights and lowlights. After an hour or so of work, I stepped into the microkitchen to get some breakfast. Ooh, endless bowl of cherries. I snagged a bowl of those, some cherries. Saw that they now have Smartfood, Chex Mix and Pop Chips. Their siren song already calling, I made a mental note to find those a home in my stomach later that day.

Working at the laptop, I could notice a lot of jaw, back, neck pain creeping back in. Similar to how it was when I was there full-time. It’s my bad posture so I can’t really blame the company – I just need to fix how I sit so close that I’m almost diving into the laptop screen. The place I sit in is nice and open. And I’m surrounded by people!

Eventually it was off to the bathrooms where I rediscovered my love for heated Japanese toilet seats. How I’ve missed those. Then somehow the bathroom perks reminded me of how used to the pampering you get when you’ve been there long enough. I remember countless times walking into a non-Google bathroom, putting my hands under the faucet and wondering why water wasn’t automatically coming out. It eventually dawned on me that not everyone has auto-sensors installed.

Had lunch with two good friends and former colleagues. I stepped away for a minute to get some chocolate covered strawberries. Upon return, they decided, “You look so much happier and more confident than when you used to work here full time.”

Had meetings with my old team which was cool yet strange. Most people understood my decision not to return full time. My old supervisor was curious too. It simply came down to the realization that I wouldn’t've been passionate about the work. Or more importantly, I wouldn’t've learned anything new and that would have bored me to tears. Well, likely to anger and resentment and that’s not a place I need to visit 5 days a week.On the drive back from that meeting (yes, the buildings are kind of that far) I grab a bag of Chex Mix.

The afternoon sped by or, rather, I made it speed by because I wanted to get out of there by 3:30 to not deal with rush hour. 60 minutes to get home which isn’t really bad, but still a lot of time.

I think I’ll need to speed up this transition so that sooner rather than later, I can spend hours at Google instead as a visitor than a contractor.

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Week Ending June 6, 2010

  • Organized and ran FreelanceCamp PRO San Francisco. The event was sold out! Had ~100 attendees from the Bay Area, Santa Cruz, Oregon and Seattle. Brought in a fabulous sponsor who contributed well to sessions, sponsored schwag and drinks at the after party. Energy was great and overall it went well. Learned lots by putting on the event. Learn more at FreelanceCamp.
  • Late May, started classes in life coaching to explore possibilities there. Really, really enjoyable enough so that it made the 3 day course not feel like 3 days. When I’m ready, I think I’ll focus on clients that are looking to make a career change. Learn more at CTI.
  • One day course up at Spirit Rock on meditation and neurology.
  • Started going to gym/swim then somehow I keep messing up my knees which then means more convalescence/inactivity which makes me grumpy. *Sigh*
  • Admob-Google deal closes. Working to transition and wrap up projects.
  • Feel disconnected or spread too thin. Upcoming weeks will be spent paring down and focusing on fewer projects.

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Week Ending May 16, 2010

Attempting bi-monthly snippets. Get ready for a snoozer, kiddies.

  • Beginning of month spent at what I now call Omacon (BRK Annual Meeting). Then Vegas.
  • After 14 trips in 6 months (12 air, 4 road), I’ve officially aggravated tendons near my knee which get worse when I drive, so, very sadly, I have no otter updates.
  • Early May, come to mutual agreement to end consulting gig in NYC.
  • Rest of time has been spent convalescing, readjusting to new found free time, telling myself that I don’t have to be doing anything (harder than I thought) and financial planning.
  • What’s on deck? Vote here (til Monday 5/17 that is). So far the populous wants me to get to the gym and lose weight. Or be more energetic. Or both. I’ll likely get to all options listed there, just really trying to listen to what it is that I want to do first.
  • Still working on Freelance Camp SF June 5th event.
  • Next week I might even pick up a book again.
  • Life is good, can’t really complain especially since a dear friend sent me this cute tea for two tea set. Sent for no reason at all except to celebrate our friendship. Yep, I have great ones.

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Notes: Berkshire Hathaway 2010

Every few years, my family and I will go to Omaha and I’m subject to questions like “What are you doing in the middle of nowhere?” This year was one of those years. Thankfully, I have enough geek friends who understand the allure. Granted, this year, the combination of Omaha & Vegas threw people for an additional loop.

We go to Omaha to attend the shareholders meeting. I go – despite the fact that I’m not in the financial world – because it’s fun inspiring to watch Buffett and Munger doing what they love at their age. They remind me to follow my passion in life or to find it and not let anything get in the way of that. Something I need to hear a lot lately.

They also dispense more than a few memorable quotes and morsels of advice which are applicable outside the investment world. Here are my notes from today’s event. In bold is what the question referred to, directly below are snippets of their responses.

RE: Goldman’s Abacus deal
Buffett: “I was Snow White, but I drifted.” Moral: Better know what you’re doing. “We stayed away from things we didn’t understand – we avoided stupidity.”
Munger: “Standards in business shouldn’t be what’s legal and convenient. And there isn’t an investment bank out there that didn’t take on too many scuzzy investments/securities.”

RE: Financial reform
Munger: “We need a new version of Glass-Steagall. Give humans the flexibility to do anything they damn please and they will go plum crazy. And of course they did.”

“I’m just as good at not knowing as you are.”

RE: Advice on changing the culture of an organization or if you’re building an organization
It’s a lot easier to build a new organization than to change culture of existing. Berkshire is designed to reinforce the culture. If you have any choice the matter, start from scratch.
Buffett: At Salomon, I attempted to change it – I would not grade myself an A+.
Munger: In your position [coming into a company to change culture] my failure rate has been 100 percent.

RE: On educating kids on financial management
Get good financial habits early in life. Teach them in a very enjoyable manner.
Reference to Andy Hayward’s  Secret Millionaire’s Club – an organization founded to teach healthy financial habits to kids. Behind the scenes video.
Ben Franklin was teaching that years ago.
McDonald’s succeeds better as a educator than some universities do because they hire people who are quite marginal. These people then go on to higher positions. Their employment culture encourages saving.

RE: Giving away your money
“If you want to give away all your money, it’s a terrific tax dodge.”

RE: Net Jets
Buffett, “We’ll make some mistakes.”
Munger, “The episode ought to be reviewed in context. If we buy 30 businesses .. And it works out 95 percent and one of the businesses fails, etc. …We let managers do their stuff and it’s worked well for us.”
{There’s ongoing commentary about acknowledging that they make mistakes. They recognize that they’re not infallible}

RE: Management with minimal interference from Omaha
Will jump in when there are problems.
We won’t trade reputation for money. That’s why they put the Salomon clip every year.
“If the best reason you’re doing something is because someone else is doing it, that’s not good enough.”
Buffett, “We can cure any problem if we hear about it soon enough. We will have more of that in the future, there’s no getting around that.”
Munger, “The ideal isn’t to make too much money, the ideal is that we celebrate wealth only when it’s been fairly won and widely used.”

RE: Financial consequences of the insurance business
“We are deliberately seeking a method of operation that will give us a few big losses in a single year, most people try to avoid it altogether.” {Note willingness to make mistakes whereas most people fear making mistakes}
Their competitive advantage is the willingness to endure fluctuating results.

RE: Wall St and Derivatives
Quotes John Meynard Keynes, The General Theory of Employment, Interest and Money. Chapter 12.
“Speculators may do no harm as bubbles on a steady stream of enterprise. But the position is serious when enterprise becomes the bubble on a whirlpool of speculation. When the capital development of a country becomes a by-product of the activities of a casino, the job is likely to be ill-done. The measure of success attained by Wall Street, regarded as an institution of which the proper social purpose is to direct new investment into the most profitable channels in terms of future yield, cannot be claimed as one of the outstanding triumphs of laissez-faire capitalism — which is not surprising, if I am right in thinking that the best brains of Wall Street have been in fact directed towards a different object.”

RE: Advice/Question on being a money manager
“There will always be opportunities if you’re not working with large amounts of money.”
“Opportunities come around, you have to be prepared when they come around.. With moderate amounts of money there will always be opportunities.”

Buffett’s advice to money managers: “Take the high road, it’s far less crowded. Those that take the high road in Washington are seldom crowded with heavy traffic.”
Munger: “We’ve made our share of dumb deals at Berkshire. We expect to do dumb things.”
Munger: “We are stupid in many ways but we have avoided a slight subset of stupidities. And those are very important.”

RE: Changes in integrity of management
“What led to the crisis involved a lack of integrity in management. Integrity is very important. It’s the safest way to make money too.” Munger tells a story about Pope Urban II speaking about Cardinal Richelieu: ‘If there is a God, Cardinal Richelieu has much to answer to and if there is no God, then he’s done very well.’
Buffett talks about the 1993 FASB (accounting board) attempt to change the way companies report options (recommended reporting options as expense instead of income). “The everyone else is doing it is the toughest thing” .. cites 1993 example of accounting board recommendation that options be recorded as expenses. 498 companies chose to do it the non-preferred way (options as income). 2 took the preferred method (options as expense). When he asked the 498 companies why they went against FASB recommendations, “I can’t do it if the other guy isn’t doing it”… “Situational ethics problem is huge.”

You want a structure minimizes the weakness of human behavior.

Munger, “Much of behavior comes from subconscious poor cognition (less so from greed). The best cure is to have a system where people bear the consequences. Mortgage systems are irresponsible systems. And it’s deeply immoral to do so. There are (have been) very few apologies [from mortgage companies].

RE: On Failure
Munger, “I developed more courage after I learned that I could handle failure.”
“Maybe you can learn to get your feet wet with a little more failure.”
I can be optimistic when I’m nearly dead. -Munger

Re: Valuing companies
Buffett: “Know where the perimeter of your circle of competence is. It’s enormously important to recognize your limitations in this business.”

Munger: “Try to go to bed a little wiser than when you got up. Accumulate over time. People who do that almost never fail utterly. (With the right temperament) You may rise slowly but you’re sure to rise.”

Munger never took a business course.

Munger on BYD: “They try harder, they’re more disciplined. It’s a pleasure to work with those people. It’s with those (types of) people who I’ve succeeded with the most.

RE: On advice to young entrepreneurs
“Follow your passion. The common factor in their success [BRK managers] is that they love what they do. You’ve got to find that in life. It was dumb luck that my dad was in the securities business. If you find something that turns you on, you’ll do very well in it. Not many people will run faster than you in the race you elect to get into. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking.”

Example of Mrs. B who ran NFM. She never went to school, started NFM on $500 capital. She loved what she did. All her life. Think what that produced.

Buffet: “Find your passion and don’t let anything stop you.”

RE: Unifying theory of management and life
Munger, “It’s pragmatism. It suits us, it suits our temperament/natures. It’s just that simple. Have enough good sense that if something is going well, keep doing it. Repeat what works.”

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April 2010

Monthly snippets for April:

  • LitUp event on travel. Read and exhibited photography. Sold a photo too! Which then led to a 2nd sale when I told a friend about it. Remarked to my cousin the other day that in less than two years, I’ve become a paid speaker, writer, storyteller and photographer. Go me.
  • Otter Updates: Rescued abandoned otter pup was cared for at the aquarium then flew off to her new home at the aquarium in Atlanta.
  • Still working 2 consulting gigs.
  • Snowshoe hiking at Sierra.
  • Gluttony on NYC trip. Two most popular questions asked while catching up with friends: What are you doing here? (Work). Would you ever move back? (No – qualified a minute later with, unless there is a really good reason)
  • Began organizing FreelanceCamp event in SF. June 5th!

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Things Men Say…

Most of these snippets were overheard at a bar. Location/context noted below. Enjoy…

“Every girl I’ve dated, I was dating someone else when I met them.”
-Rickhouse Bar

“Dude, we should go to the Czech Republic!! I’ve heard that the Czech Republic is the land of the hidden hotties.”
-Rickhouse Bar, same night, different guy.

“…[let's] use that cleavage to do the heavy lifting for us.”
-Conference call, Project lead at a major entertainment/media company.

“Who’s Caroline?” “She’s the girl I had to break up with because she thought we were dating.”
-Harry’s Bar

And don’t worry, I’m equal opportunity, so I will post humorous snippets from women.

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